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mazhab: hang jgn nk terlebih auta noh!! 17 Jan 2011 6:39 AM (14 years ago)

aku tengok ada kecenderungan org islam di malaysia ni utk sama berdebat hal2 berkaitan islam.ini bukan hal2 fardhu ain saja malahan menyntuh persoalan aqidah dan bahas fiqh yg mendalam. aku tak lihat ini sbg satu yg sihat.sebabnya, depa ni dari hujah mereka adalah dangkal ilmu agama.semuanya dilandaskan mengikut pengajian ilmu ikut dan dan pertimbangan akal.

aku berada dalam linkungan mereka yg belajar agama secara sahih (baca: ustaz) dan aku sendiri belajar diploma pengajian islam masa aku single).aku sangat hormat dgn org2 agama kerana bagi aku mereka adalah pewaris nabi.tu sbb juga aku menikah sorang ustaz mesir demi kerana hormat dan inginnya aku perdalamkan islam.

yg buat aku hangin,golongan yg purak purak cerdik agama dlm masyarakat ni yg buat aku mendidih.ada yg doik sibuk jd penyokong salafi.mengutuk ahlul sunnah.tapi bila aku tanya, padia beza salafi,mampuih tak dapat jawab.ada yg dok salahkan penerapan mazhab imam syafie di malaysia. bagi aku, memandangkan masyarakat kita ni kurang ilmu agama, bahasa arab pon tak paham sepatah haram, baca quran ikut dan, hampa nk confusekan dgn perbincangan mazhab yg lebih baik ditinggalkan buat mereka yg lebih alim itu?hampa nak dunya celaru ka?

aku bukannya taksub mazhab.tapi aku sellau tgk satu2 perkara berdasarkan keadaannya. bayangkan hampa ajaq perbandingan 4 mazhab kpd soon-to-be mat rempit , takka pernaya budak tu.hang ajaq, takpa anjing tu x haram (ikut hanafi), haram ikut syafie.kut2 sok dia dok bertepuk tampaq , cium sana sini dgn hanjing takka pernaya.

bagi aku,mmg ada keluasan berijtihad.tapi sumanya ada kaedahnya.(ya aku tau aku ajar kaedah penyelidikan.jadi kaedahnya aku amat berkaedah).org2 agama kita yg awal2 nk menapakkan islam di malaysia ni, guna pakai mazhab syafie nk bg permudah hidup.manusia ni nk kepastian.sat gi ustaz tu ckp ikut mazhab syafie, sat gi mazhab hanafi, hampa kata ustaz tu membohong.itu antaranya.dan perbahasan mendalam hal khilaf ini terlebih elok dibahas oleh alim ulama.bukan ikut dan ja kita yg cetek ilmu.

bg aku mudah saja, hang pi blajaq agama elok2.jgn jadi ikut perasaan sgt dlm agama.sampai apa saja salah hampa x ley terima.dan kalau hampa nk bercakap hal perbandingan mazhab,tutup aurat betul2 dulu.kalau dada hang dok menonjol sana sini,rambut hang gerbang sana sini,pi bleajar hukum asas dulu.dan kau mamat, kalau hang tak blaja agama, jgn dok perleceh apa imam syafie buat.hampa bley buat ka,hukum haidh tu? silap2 aku tanya pasal permasalahan haidh, hampa ikut dan bg pendapat.silap2 dpt haram bersama bini hang time haidh.

aku mmg jarang marah.tapi bila aku tgk ada pak pandir nk tunjuk pandai dalam agama.aku naik angin.aku paling pantang org tak hormat org2 agama.ya mereka bukan maksum . tapi sekurangnya depa pewaris nabi.hang?

peanut butter square 15 Jan 2011 6:30 AM (14 years ago)

peanut butter square
* alternative to snickers & reese
original recipe from bakeryeyed

base
1/2 cup unsalted butter
1 3/4 cup powdered sugar ( i used 1 1/2 cup only)
1 cup smooth peanut butter ( i used chunky one)
3/4 graham cracker crumbs ( i used weetameal crackers)
1/2 cup oats (i added at my own)

topping
1/4 cup unsalted butter
1/2 cup chopped cooking chocolate

methods:
melt 1/2 cup butter on double-boiled .after fully melt, stay away from the heat and add sugar,peanut butter,and all ingredient for base.
bring it back to the heat and stir until fully combined.

then,spread it on the pan

for topping melt the ingr. using double boiling method.
pour on top of base.
refrigate for 30 mins.

wasatiyyah 13 Jan 2011 9:38 AM (14 years ago)

suddenly i remembered my chit-chat time with my ex-boss,almarhum prof dr muhammad al mahdi. he was a white american revert who fall in love with Malaysia but speak Indonesian.*lol. he passed away almost 6 years ago.

he was surely a brainy man.with long list of academic and working experiences with america army & NASA, he of course possessed clearly good brain. he told us, 3 of us (his staff); kak rahimah,kak syahida and kak sofia, pentagon has technology beyond 50 years.just imagine that! 50 years! whatever we muslim country have?

if we remembered how Rasulullah asked us to seek jannah as if we'll die tomorrow and seek dunya as if we will life forever, we should know that, achieving the greatest must be made as our focal point.a good muslim who actually deeply understand the Islam and syarie will prohibit himself from mushy quashy sort of things and focus the energy on improving ourselves.

islam does not asking you to left all the dunya for akhirah.the best is always the moderate stand.khayr inshallah

chocolate with orange zest pudding 13 Jan 2011 9:36 AM (14 years ago)

chocolate with orange zest pudding
*resepi dr bbc.com.yes,british broadcasting!

125g/5oz butter
125g/5oz caster sugar (i used 100g)
2 oranges, zest and flesh cut into segments
2 eggs, beaten
170g/6oz self raising flour ( i used wheat flour instead)
3 heaped tbsp cocoa powder (i used 4 heaped tbsp koko radix)
1 tsp baking powder
1/2 cup milk or until you get the dropping consistency

For the chocolate sauce

50g/2oz dark chocolate
1 tbsp honey
hot water, to mix

Preparation method

Lightly grease pudding basins with a little butter. Put the remaining butter, sugar, orange zest, eggs, flour, cocoa powder and baking powder into a large bowl and beat until smooth and thoroughly combined. Add enough milk to give a dropping consistency.

Spoon the mixture into the pudding basin and smooth the surface. Steam for about 30 minutes.

While the puddings are cooking, make the chocolate sauce. Melt the chocolate in a bowl over simmering water and add the honey. Add enough hot water to mix to a coating consistency.

garnish with orange, of course...hehehe

Steamed Cheese-Layered Choc Brownies 10 Jan 2011 5:00 PM (14 years ago)

Steamed Cheese-Layered Choc Brownies
brownies
*500 g premix brownies flour
*4 eggs
*75ml cooking oil
*200ml water
*5g baking powder
*5g soda bicarbonate

Cream cheese filling
250g cream cheese
60 g castor sugar
1 egg
25 ml water

1.Add all ingredients marked * and beat onmixer with medium speed for 3 mins.
2.for cream cheese filling : add all the ingredient except egg.beat until fluffy.add the egg and beat for a while.
3.how to make a layer: pour half of the brownies mixture and steam for 15 mins
4.then,pour the cream cheese filing and steam for 15 mins
5.lastly, pour the left brownies mixture.steam for 30-40 mins.
6.you can pipe some choc ganache and topping is up to your creativity

pau (steamed pao) 10 Jan 2011 4:59 PM (14 years ago)

pau (steamed pao) (makes around 15-20 pieces chubby pao)

500 g wheat flour
1/2 packet mauripan
1/2 cup sugar
1/4 vege oil
1 3/4 cup water

filling
*you can put anything you want.curry chic,sardine.am using the egg coconut jam.

method
1.mix flour & mauuripan and dissolve sugar on water
2.mix all ingre. and knead the dough with hand for 15 min or until become smooth.
3.scale it around 60 gm,round it and rest for 10 min
4.flatten the dough and put the filling.
5.wrap it and rest for another 40 minute to rise. (put on some squared papers.
6.steamed it on steamer.

donut choco 10 Jan 2011 4:58 PM (14 years ago)

donut choco

500g tpg gandum
1/2 bungkus mauripan
3/4cwn ayaq
1/3 cwn susu tepg pnh krim
1 bj teloq
1/2 cwn marjerin
3 camca gula pasir halus
1 sudu besar garam
1/2 camca besar baking powder

topping choco
1/2 cwn koko radix
1.5 sudu besar susu pekat manis
1 sdu besar marjerin
2 sudu besar air
(masak sume double boil)

1.gaulkan tpg & mauripan dan larutkan gula dlm air
2.gaul semua dan uli sampai licin biar selama 30 min atau die jd kembang 2kali saiz
3.kemudian,tumbuk2 skit adunan tu dan uli2 skit danbuatkan ikut size dan rupe donut yg biasa dilihat
4.biar sat dlm 30 mint
5.kemudian goreng
6.sirakan dgn coklat dan rice kaler2.

egg&chicken sandwich 10 Jan 2011 4:57 PM (14 years ago)

egg&chicken sandwich

roti perancis - buh skit butter bakar atas tefal bg garing skit

fillings:
ayam kisar
3 biji telur
bawang benggala cincang kiub
bawang putih cincang kiub
4 sudu besar sauce cheese & herbs kimball
1/2 sudu kecik serbuk lada hitam
nenas
jagung
kapsikum (utk walidnya)

goreng ayam kisar dah garing skit masuk telur.hancur2kan telur masukkan bawang dan lelain

hiasan
timun potong nipis2
tomato pon sama
mayo --> sapu pd roti skit je

hidangkan cam buat sandwich.peh tu boleh dimakan.baca doa makan dulu ya..ehhe * AWAS ---> portionnya sangat kcik.si bapa mungkin bley makan sebanyak 20 bijik..muehehhe

no-bake strawberry cheese cake 10 Jan 2011 4:43 PM (14 years ago)

no-bake strawberry cheese cake
*pic is a bit blur & non-artistic.using mys sis hp cam.

base:
3 1/2 cwn biskut marie (tumbuk sampai hancur)
3/4 ketul butter (cairkan)
* gaulkan kedua2 dan kedapkan pd loyang.peh tu simpan dlm fridge dlm 30min-1jam

filling
250 g cream cheese
200 g whipped cream
1 bekas kecik yogurt perisa beri (dlm 130g)
1/2 cwn gula halus
1 sudu kecik gelatin halal (masukkan dlm air suam dlm 1/2 cwn & kaco.maybe dia akan berketul2..tp sy masukkan je dlm adunan..hehehe)
*pukul sume sampai gebu.yogurt tu separuh masukkan masa last skali before tuang dlm loyang.jgn kacau sgt.bg nampak warna skit.dah sudah..tuang dlm loyang ada base td.dan sejukkan dlm fridge sekitar 2 jam ke atas.

hiasan
2 sudu besar jam strawberry
dan amik dlm 1 sudu besar air gelatin yg dibuat tadi.
1 sudu kecik gula
*masak atas api kecik.dan tuang bila nk makan.bila da serve satu2.dan boleh taruk fresh stroberi..

(versi sy takde hiasan sbb anak tukang pegang dlm kete terpenyekkan..meleper jadinya..arghh)

choco-nestum steamed cake 10 Jan 2011 4:41 PM (14 years ago)

obesity : queen sized 3 Jan 2011 3:02 PM (14 years ago)

im watching queen sized.a drama on big teenage girl winning her homecoming queen title.i really love this kind of story where people defied any challenges and win the battle of self-esteem.

id went through a childhood with big girl stamped on my forehead.with the harsh and rude kids who made remarks on big people, it just collapsing more and more the self esteem on me. parent should teach their child to have better manner and dont simply call big people with names.i might say i want to slap them on face.and now, most of them are having reversing process with me.(this is karma,peeps!kidding)

and im not sure whether im on diet or depressed or whatsoever whatcamacallit, i lost my appetite and resulting me lost loads of kilos. i entered new school year (standard 4) as a skinny girl.

what am trying say here is, the epidemic of obesity and how people perceived it. first, obesity is increasing and often it comes with negative effects.most people know, to prevent obesity, healthy lifestyle is needed.second, the negative connotation and rude remarks by skinny society on this people.this is among the factor that contributed to the depression and continuing indulging on obesity lifestyle.

let me put this way.often,family of obese child, will shower them with loads of unhealthy food. some even going further by encouraging glued-to-the-magic box attitudes.some parents extend their wildness of being being too protective, ironically by being sympathetic.this big girl DID NOT need sympathy.dont look at them as fat girl.look at them as your child who deserve your help on having healthier body and life.as a parent, your role and power on shaping your child is high.why dont you use it?

for obese people to shed all those excess baggages, the most important thing is support from the loved ones.if your obese persona trying to lose weight,give him/her support. encourage them to have healthy life and balanced meals.prevent y ourself from inviting them joining mamak at 12 midnite. encourage her to exercise.thats the right way to do so.

obesity is an epidemic and helps your child to go out from it.

niqab 2 Jan 2011 9:29 AM (14 years ago)

OMG (tune it to BEP's) !! the internet is too slow.Based on the research statistics of 1 person died in every 4 minutes due to cancer, the loading of my CSI Crime City FB games will take life of 30 persons. i supposed to continue my paper writing.After 2 pieces of toast with nutella spreading on them and a cup of hot coffee safely going through my esophagus and ready to be digested, i,yet to start any writing (instead blogging? dush*dush*).

im busying myself with these line chart in which i think look not so good.after consulting my dearest ex-colleague,firebrand miss kiti loh, she told me, for nice chart , excel is better choice.again OMG! i need to master this product of Gates?arghh

no,straight to the main topic.one of my husband friend commented on the pictures of one niqabi woman strutting (yes,she was posing and the eyes were too seductive) on FB.he is my husband's junior in pondok Pak ya and went to Al azhar too.he told the woman, "tujuan berniqab utk mengelak fitnah. pandangan mata serta bahasa tubuh pun sama." (the purpose of wearing niqab is to prevent fitnah (bad mouthing). that includes eyes gazing and body language.).haa terkedu kak tu bila kene sound sekali. i agreed with Ust. F*.if you are niqabi, doesnt mean that you can upload 1 millions of your pics on FB. ok.ok.im exaggerating.it will cause fitnah.dont you think so? whats more if you striking a pose , looking fiercely and seductively with big smile (well,the eyes will tell whether you smile or not). i just dont get it.thats why i stated on my status :

memberatkan aurat kesan drpd pemberatan ibadah itulah terbaik. bukan disbbkan dorongan emosi atau persekitaran.
a stricter stand on aurah should be based on the effect of better ibadah.thats the best.not because of emotionally-driven or surrounding

am not bashing any niqabis.it is your niat.i didnt know your niat.only ALLAH knows it.but if you are not doing it sincerely because of Him, its is no good.beware of what we are doing.we are the living syiar of Islam.

FB & Life 1 Jan 2011 6:34 AM (14 years ago)

1. not all the people do what they stated on the status.
2. islam should be practiced in your life in all aspect not just practice it on FB.
3. people always think they are right eventhough they are wrong.
4. people are always absence of empathy. they judged condition based on what they are up to.not the person on it.
5. some people are so narrow minded and overboard when it comes to practicing Islam. (kamonn!!nothing wrong of women working!!!).
6. you might be close virtually but not necessarily in real life.
   

conclusion is : beware.FB will kills your reality social skills as the radio kills the superstar!! haha *kidding!!

happy dakwah ii : dakwah thru music 27 Dec 2010 10:53 PM (14 years ago)

i saw new combustion of songs with good message in current situation.credited to my husband who sometimes tuning to Hot fm to cease all the sleepy-ness caused by boring discussion on ikim.fm.

i didnt take a hard or syadid stand when it comes to entertainment although me myself are not a keen music listener (except for samy yusuf.he is god-sent to us!!*alamak terikut gaya wan azizah plak da)
i believe in self-control and wasatiyyah is indeed important when handling mubah cases.

several new songs like kekanda adinda by monoloque & atilia , is for me a very good song with very good message for facing the increasing of divorces among Malaysian. the song beautifully potrayed dilemma of a wife in choosing a career or starting a family. well,of course, argument is mostly there in any marriage.and the solution stated on the song among others : mari kita komunikasi. (let us communicate)

then, the song by suhaimi meor hassan & anna rafali.im not sure the title but the lyrics advised the unmarried couple to avoid being overboard. : jangan pegang2 jalan renggang2 (dont touch each other , walk apart)
again, during the wave of baby dumping season, this song at least tickling the sense of coupling people who listen to this kind of music.

and the maher zain's craze is indeed one very good way introducing nasyeed to youngsters who shying themselves to this kind of genre.they started to sang the dzikr and dua which for me something that we should be happy to see it.imagine this : youngster who never knew arabic words and rarely in touch with islam, suddenly utter the Barakallahu lakuma wa barakah..subhanallah, i hope they will find the meaning and ALLAH gives hidayah to them.

again...dakwah is indeed has vast method and approach.think of our mad'u (the people we want to dakwah) and we should try our best to actually tackling them.if music can do it, let it be.make the music more meaningful and full of naseehah (advice) and let them infuse with good word such as dzikr,dua from the song.
me, myself re-treasured the beautiful of islam thru music too! i'tiraf by raihan.masyaAllah, i turned to a new leaf, from people who sometimes neglecting islam to fully commit to it.



dont just talk.walk the talk.

enuff 24 Dec 2010 9:51 AM (14 years ago)

i might say, i have good quality in fashion department. although im having a 'zuhd' life nowadays (hehe) but seriously, it doesnt kill my fashion sense.in fact im made a good fashion police.people can judge me.

but am not putting my focus on fashion.i just wear abaya & shayl.i said JUST.not for any other reason.i wear it for it modesty & comfort.i prefer a toned down design & satin.in fact,the minimal it is the more i like it.
the era of fashionista on me had faded (lol!!budget artis hollywood?)

so now, i became bored to visit fashion-based sites.furthermore yg ada abaya-based.kalau jual xpa juga.ni set yg fashion2.kalau nk berlebih2 sgt,sy takkan berabaya.saya pakai je kaftan.maybe kita patut dengar balik perkataan TABARRUJ la kot.

yeah.back to normal life: game..kehkehkeh

my kid is the best? 24 Dec 2010 6:23 AM (14 years ago)

i cant stand it.many parents want their child to be gifted. a child is a gifted in natural way. if you learn how children acquire their life skills , youll be amazed! thats how ALLAH plan the best for these cute creatures!
i read on paper, an actress said her 6months old baby can walk.at 1 year old can read.aiyooo!!be it. this is extreme cases.

my response was: god blimey!! i believe in the natural (fitrah) way.you can guided the development but not forcing or exerting it.every child is unique & special.enjoy the moments with them.feeding too much cognitive inputs without taking any consideration of others input ,e.g., communication,social,motor is not a good thing to do.

mom & career 16 Dec 2010 9:58 AM (14 years ago)

work with passion.thats the key.if you are a career mom, enjoice it.bear in mind, you are working to gain His pleasure by helping your family economy and society. if you think that way, ALLAH, the most merciful & compassionate will give the best for you in return. dont feel upset for not having enough time with your kids. instead, grab the most time you with quality engagement.it is really a quality not quantity that the kids treasured.

if not,you felt grumpy on the less-time spent on your kids, take bold action.quit and find something you enjoy doing it.be a SOHO mom or full-time homemaker. by doing that, your niah of working because of Him are not betrayed. think about thousand of people who really badly needs your job.if you loss passion on it,leave it and stop whining.

there is choice in our life.sometimes, we cant have it all perfect.we need to balance.feel guilty wont help either.taking bold action that truly satisfy your innerself is the only solution.otherwise it just covering the surface of the issues.

wallahualam

open up 14 Dec 2010 9:24 AM (14 years ago)

i cant stand people who blasting all things from west are bad and came with hidden agenda. there are some bloc of people who abstain themselves from having vaccination and avoiding any kind of family planning based on "that's Jews agenda". OMG!(reminder: this pillow talks applicable for married couples.i didnt condone any illegal sexual intercourse among muslim (read:ZINA) in facts i hate that so much)

did you know that, medical advancement is a gift from God? it is really up to us to think which is good and which is not.in our country, the rate of maternal & infant fatality are dropped and among the lowest in the region.why? because of the quality offered by the health service in our country; in which includes proper ante-natal care and post natal care.we have vaccination fro examples Rubella,HPV,UTT; which is helps on diminishing the risk of fatality during pregnancy. these vaccine also helped by promising better health and preventing any worst case.

what i cant stand is,when people kept condemning, this is all the agenda from jews to ruin the muslims.i see this ante-natal care is a good way of taking yourself during pregnancy.it prevents you from having any complication later on.

and talking about married woman, contraception is a hit among us. if you want many kids go ahead.dont blame people who use contraception. there is no wrong for married couples to plan their family. see what happened now? we are good in quantity but somehow it doesnt translate into quality. even in Islam, breastfeeding is encouraged until 2 years old because it is good way of family planning (i think that is why ALLAH stated 2 years, so that you can continue bear a child later on.2 years are ideal for next baby, i guess.again,this is what the muslim scientist should study.there is always an idea on what ALLAH said).
even among the sahabah of prophet Muhammad saw, practiced azal (ejaculated outside the vagina) to prevent pregnancies.

i didnt know what to say.sometimes we need to open up a lil bit.you have internet, use it to find info.

alhamdulillah 12 Dec 2010 9:38 AM (14 years ago)

the crisis is over.everybody learnt a lesson. ALLAH gave us the hardship, so that we treasured Him for the relief.
subhanallah.masyallah.alhamdulillah.allahuakbar.

opinion,anyone? 12 Dec 2010 9:14 AM (14 years ago)

i often involved on heated discussion. be it on the real life or the virtual one. it is not that i am a person who likes to argue. it is more to "i am a person who loves to voice my controversial and critical opinions".*dang.but again, i speak the facts.am not going to argue something which is not based on the scientific findings or the documented facts.it just wasted my time to be indulged on some hearsay *OMG..am i sound like a lawyer?

malaysia is a place where we breed timid people who often hiding their views and opinions. we are society that shaped up by 'keep quiet' is the best. however, this situation is true to the extend of the real world. but in virtual life, we can be that nasty and whatchamacalit?*coward.well,it is not a weird thing.in Malay society, the rising usage of black magic or sihr is one of the best evidence on how coward Malay is.we tend to have sweet talk, polite attitude in front but the bad,evil and yucky heart inside.then we sorted to the black magic to fail our hated people's life.

ok.back to the real issues on being opinionated.am might saying that,i am indeed a person who a bit stubborn and as long as people can provide an evidence on what am saying is rubbish, ill fight for it until the end.it just my nature that, am not easily give up.often, i view some issues 1000 years ahead *ok.im exaggerating at this point.i always look some issue from many perspectives. from my personal psycho-profile, i am blessed with high empathy; in which explaining on why i always put my self on other's heels*kiddink.suppose shoes.

but,am not sure.in malaysia,politician or people who joined the politic wagon,no matter how many doctoral dissertation they have, they tended to slip their mind and suddenly became a monkey.*thanks my ex-schoolmate,arif atan on this idea.they cant stand the heated arguments with rational and clear conscience.resulting on bad-mouthing which actually make a fool of themselves.and at the same time, this kind of people is dreaming of leading the country?my saying is : pah (which is a gesture indicating no in deaf)
you can lead a country.planet of the apes, might suit you.

ust azizan razak 11 Dec 2010 7:34 AM (14 years ago)

MB Kedah Ustaz Azizan mmg pandai berpolitik. Susah media nk eksploit dia. Kalau taknak media eksploit, mungkin pimpinan PR yg lain boleh blajar dari dia.

itu pendapat saya. bila ada isu di bangkitkan , pihak PR akan ckp ini mainan media saja. jgn pedulikan. masalahnya, jika kita sendiri tak hati2 begitula. kene pandai la perbaik damage mcm ust azizan.
masalahnya lagi, ramai je pimpinan ...PR lain yg melatah menari berjoget dgn isu tu. amacam? boleh terima?

go diego go!! 10 Dec 2010 6:41 AM (14 years ago)

my research fields involved special children. betcha! they are awesome! it teaches me to be grateful with what ALLAH gives me. i also met great Deaf who really makes me so determined in my life. One Deaf lady is doing her PhD in UM and alumnus of Gallaudet Univ. in America (hey,that's the prestigious school for deaf studies!).
if they can do it, why cant we?

bun in an oven? 4 Dec 2010 3:32 AM (14 years ago)

im waiting for my viva.and i received positive feedback from Prof. L in the Netherlands on being my future SV for my doctoral.and i am thinking of applying permanent with U*M

and my husband has been offered by Kedah government to set up a marketing centre for IKS products.means that it is easier to stay in northern area.My husband asked me to apply permanent job in U*M and doing my doctoral there. But he asked me to wait and rest for at least half years before proceeding my study. AND he hinted for the 4th child.actually he said this for 4 times.

deep inside,yes it sadden me.i have my own dream.and it is actually 15% completed to be reality.and we are still negotiating on this.

ALLAH,please guide me.

trivial & substantial 2 Dec 2010 11:30 AM (14 years ago)

ok.let me myself clear.the following rant is not intended to hurt anyone.it is general discussion.it is my little knowledge ALLAH gave me through my humble learning from ustaz2 & ustazah.WARNING: if you are sensitive dont read.i use the humour approach on this issue.so that you wont be burden reading it.happy reading!!

i give you two condition.

1. on women's bloody issue (no pun intended!)-all that menses (haidh), postpartum bleeding (nifas) and wiladah.
2. what colors my stockin *(OMK! i didnt remember how to spell it in english) should be?

let we slowly delve into this matter by answering these questions:
1) which one is more important?
2) which one is involving major impact and judgment in Islam?

if your answer is 1 = excellent! you know what matter most
but if you answer 2 = ok. dont you have any other important thing to do *or at least to ask? or to think?

proceed with analysing
no 1 = woman menstrual cycles and nifas and wiladah are among important things that we should make ourselves very clear and understand it deeply.the reason: it is correlated with the whole of your life.

you might ask? how is it so?i have regular menses every months.
i will said,it is important to know too.because youll never know when your auntie menses will going crazy and cycling all through the month.

haidh,nifas and wiladah are too much related to our ibadah. when you want to perform solah, you must be clean from haidh,nifas & wiladah.the same goes to fasting,hajj & umrah.if your auntie M suddenly going mad and cycling non-stop..wait!! dont easily said it is istihadhah.

besides calculating the cycle, you have to see the colors of your bleeding. if you are really sure it is not haidh you must perform solah and jeng jeng jeng ...proceed to the next level ------>

and also sexual intercourse with your husband.if you are having istihadhah, your husband has right and not haram for having sex with you.and this blood issue extends to divorce & iddah.talaq is done if you havent have any jimak with your wife and she has her menses (the reason: so that she will not be preggy after you divorce her and prolonged the iddah).iddah,on the other hands, 3 times of suci from haidh.

ok now.how is your perception about your menses.complicated isnt it?it DOES surely involved those haram,halal issues right?

analysing no 2
what colors my stockin *(socks) should be?

first of all.socks issue is khilaf.imam hanafi said it is no harm of exposing your feet.ok we going deeper.

other imam said feet should be covered.it doesnt matter using what.it can be by lowering your clothes so that your feet is hiding or wear socks.in islam,this is what we call the flexibility.but since we are in malaysia, mostly followed mazhab syafiee, we are required to cover the feet.but why asking colors? honestly, i havent think about it.when my mental awareness digesting the info from those series of kuliyyah,i know the clothes should not be tight and thin.so i wear a thick sock which is of course didnt show my skin colors.in fact i wear it in a beige *which is considered as skin colours in clothes term.

and my q: does it involves major hukum here?
the answer is up to you.it is khilafiyah.you can choose it.i cant stop you from choosing your choice.and so do mine.

do you know that, bani israel is a follower who burden with heavy syariat?why?because they keep asking trivial things and burdening themselves unnecessarily when there is an easy way stated by ALLAH.read surah al baqarah.you will know how their attitude is.

as for me : ISLAM is rahmah.it is a very easy religion.it doesnt burden the followers.and why must we wasting ourselves thinking and discussing something trivial whereas lot of major things we have to think and do?divert those energy by preaching and reaching 75% malaysian muslim who dont perform solah rather than indulging on the khilafiyah issues.learn some awlawiyyah.together,we create biah solehah!

wallahualam.may ALLAH pardon me for all my wrongdoings.

notes: this is not an ijtihad.it is my approach on telling my dearest sis & bro which one is more important

Happy Belated Birhday, Nafeesah 30 Oct 2010 10:27 PM (14 years ago)