Relaxation Techniques to Keep You Calm Before Your Wedding Day 6 Apr 9:11 AM (yesterday, 9:11 am)
Every bride wants to stay sane for her big day. No matter how laidback you are or how large or small your occasion will be, stress can creep up on even the most carefree bride. Try these relaxation techniques to keep calm before you walk down the aisle.
Every bride-to-be can benefit from some simple relaxation techniques to keep calm before the big day. Every bride knows that wedding planning stress can really take its toll as the big day draws near, and it’s not always easy to sneak in some relaxation time when you’re busy planning the last-minute details. Add a job, family, school, or housekeeping into the mix, and your efforts to maintain composure and a stress-free wedding experience becomes even trickier.
To keep your stress level low and your energy level high, try the following relaxation techniques before your wedding day:
Visualization—Visualization techniques involve picturing mental images that take you to a peaceful setting, using as many of your senses as possible to create the visual. For example, take everything you would feel and smell into account while visualizing the peaceful setting of your choice. If you’re picturing yourself sitting near the ocean, imagine the way the light breeze would feel on your skin and how the salt water would smell.
Muscle Relaxation—There are countless progressive muscle relaxation techniques you can try before your wedding day and during your wedding planning process that have proven to be effective. Try focusing on one muscle group at a time and slowly tensing the muscles and then releasing them, starting near your head and neck and then working your way down to your feet. This helps you be aware of your muscles and how tension feels different from relaxation so that you can learn to make your body transition from a stressful state to a peaceful state on a regular basis.
Exercise and Downtime—Exercising thirty minutes a day and taking the time to spend some downtime with friends or family aren’t specific techniques, but they are essential components in managing your stress levels all throughout the wedding planning process, right up to the big day. Keep this in mind along with the other relaxation techniques to keep calm before your wedding day.
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5 Beautiful Wedding Shower Dessert Bars 1 Apr 9:11 AM (6 days ago)
If you’re considering creating a dessert bar for your wedding shower rather than having a sit-down dinner or buffet, then this is the post for you. You’d be surprised just how beautiful you can make dessert bars, if you take the time to really plan them out. Check out these 5 beautiful wedding dessert bars that other brides have created!
Cakes a Plenty
This gorgeous dessert bar, featuring teal and pink pops of color, offers up a variety of small cakes and delicious treats like macaroons. It’s very inviting and looks perfect for a teal and pink wedding palette.
Elegant and Beautiful
This elegant dessert bar features the wedding cake, along with tons of beautiful treats in large glass containers. What makes this one extra special are the lavender and yellow paper decorations.
Scrumptious Chocolate Bar
This fantastic chocolate bar takes advantage of a large variety of different serving dishes and platters. It offers up a huge array of chocolate treats guests will love.
Pink and Green
This round table looks absolutely wonderful jam-packed with pink and green treats. From lollipops to rock candy, this is a stunning dessert bar!
Tiffany & Co
Talk about luxury! This fantastic dessert bar is Tiffany themed, featuring desserts in the beautiful signature blue of Tiffany’s. The floral centerpieces really make this one elegant and beautiful.
These are just a few great dessert bars that you can use for inspiration when planning your own wedding reception.
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How to Shave Down the Cost of Your Wedding 17 Mar 9:11 AM (21 days ago)
Weddings are expensive. In fact, the average cost of a wedding is just under $30,000 and for many brides, the cost is much more. Luckily, there are things you can do to shave down the cost of your wedding while still having everything you want. Here are a few great tips to save money as you’re planning your wedding.
Off Season
Weddings most often take place in the summer, and typically in June. To take that a little further, most brides have their weddings on a Saturday. For this reason, venues and vendors will always cost more if you’re booking them for those peak wedding times. Instead, choose to get married in the fall, or if your heart is set on summer, choose August or July. In addition to that, get married during a week day to save money.
Avoid Costly Designers
There is no doubt that you’re going to pay more for a Vera Wang dress than you would for a non-designer dress. If you choose those fancy designer invitations, you’ll pay more as well. When planning your wedding, try to find knock off designer items to save money. Some imitations are so well done that they look exactly like the real thing!
Skip Entrée-Style Meals
When having a sit-down, entrée style dinner, you can expect to pay up to $50 per guest. Instead, choose a buffet-style wedding meal or a suitable alternative. Dessert meals are becoming more and more popular for weddings held in the evening after normal dinner hours. Also, by choosing not to provide alcohol to guests during the meal or reception, you can shave several hundred dollars from your wedding budget.
DIY
If you’re a crafty gal, you can save a lot of money by creating some of your wedding décor elements yourself. Rather than hiring a florist, you can create your own centerpieces and bouquets with fresh or silk flowers. Another idea is to enlist the help of a few friends to handle the planning and decorating rather than relying on a professional wedding decorator.
By following these thrifty tips, you can save money on your wedding and use the extra cash for your honeymoon or put it in your savings account for a rainy day!
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Bridal Makeup Tips 12 Mar 9:11 AM (26 days ago)
While some of us can afford to spend an arm and a leg on our upcoming nuptials, many brides are always on the lookout for ways to save. This may mean holding the big day during the “off-season”, limiting the guest list, offering chicken instead of steak and, perhaps, having a beauty-savvy friend do your hair and makeup. If the idea of skipping the cost of a professional makeup artist sounds appealing, you should be aware that your normal beauty regime may not translate well into your wedding pictures. Below are a few tips to consider when prepping to be photographed on your big day.
Up your mane’s shine – lusciously silky locks will look particularly lovely in photographs, so prime your hair with a deep, leave-in conditioner that will lock in moisture. A rejuvenating hair mask can be whipped up using egg whites and avocado, or you can nourish your tresses with Argan oil, found affordably in Agadir products from Image Beauty. Right before the photo shoot, spritz in a glossing spray to add sheen that will make your hair look healthy and silky through the camera’s lens (though make sure you apply it away from the scalp or else shininess may seem like grease).
Decrease your complexion’s shine – As much as your hair can use a boost, your skin’s gleam will be overly evident in photographs. Therefore, opt for a matte finish or powder when choosing your foundation and it doesn’t hurt to have blotting papers on hand so you can lightly tab away the grease (applying a primer will help even out your complexion and prevent and sliding). Even if you’re not normally a fan, a bit of peachy blush will add a rosy glow and help sculpt your cheekbones in the photos. While it is crucial that you find a foundation that seamlessly matches your skin tone, get rid of dark circles underneath your eyes by using a concealer with warmer undertones to counter the cool shadows.
Make your eyes pop – for a fresh look, a secret weapon to store in your arsenal is eye brightening drops, available online at Verseo, to make your whites clean and clear, and lining your waterline with white or off-white pencil will subtly make your peeper seem bigger. You’ll undoubtedly want to make your eyes dramatic with makeup, but thick eyeliner will actually make them appear smaller. Opting for pencil instead of liquid will give you additional control to create a smooth, delicate stroke. Open up your eyes with an eyelash curler and multiple coats of waterproof mascara. Frame the windows to your soul with a clean brow (an eyebrow pencil could be your best friend), and adding a bit of glisten to the inner corners of your lids will give you a dewy, starry-eyed appearance.
When choosing color for your eye shadow, remember that the applied pigment is meant to enhance your natural beauty, not compete with it. Keep your lids subtle and find a hue that makes your irises sparkle; blue eyes will dazzle when contrasted against roses and peaches; brown eyes will look deep when paired with soft pastels, or make them lively with gold speckled shadows; and green are seductive when set against a backdrop of lilac or mocha. No matter your color, don’t skip over the important first step of applying primer, as this will prevent smearing or creasing.
Pucker up for love – make your lips to die for days before your wedding with religious usage of balm. On the day of, fill in your mouth with a pencil before applying your gloss or lipstick so color will last longer and bleed less. If you’re worried about your teeth appearing yellow then try Smile Brilliant.
Don’t let your wedding day be the first time you test-run your makeup. Experiment days prior and perhaps even snap a few photos to determine which you look like the best. Additionally, practice your smile in the mirror so, when the photographer sets up the tripod and you’re posing next to your hubby, you feel prepared, beautiful and ready for your close up!
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Wedding Party Fun Facts 7 Mar 8:11 AM (last month)
As it gets closer to the big day, you’ll be asking some of your friends or family members to be members of the wedding party. While most people know the general line up of the wedding party, there are probably some things you don’t know. Check out these wedding party fun facts:
Maid of Honor or Matron of Honor
You’ve probably heard the terms maid of honor and matron of honor, but do you know the difference? The “maid of honor” is usually a place of honor amongst the bridesmaids, and typically is the bride’s best friend. She’s called a “matron of honor” if she is already married.
Groomsmen
In ancient days, the groomsmen were called “bride-knights.” These were men (usually friends and family members that were strong and capable) that helped the groom kidnap his future bride. While the traditions aren’t so primitive these days, they’re assistants to the groom and usually help him get dressed and ready to meet (peacefully) his bride!
The Best Man
The best man is the male equivalent of the bridesmaid. He is usually the groom’s best friend or his closest male family member.
Ring Bearer, Flower Girl and Page Boys
In most weddings, the bride and groom will choose young family members to act as the ring bearer (the boy who carries the rings down the aisle) the flower girl (walking before the bride and tossing flower petals) and the page boy (the boy who carries the bride’s train). While they’re considered places of honor these days, in ancient times they were actually servants who performed these duties for the bride and groom.
Now that you understand a little bit more about the wedding party, it’s time to choose the folks who will best play the role and do a great job!
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Win a Honeymoon at Sandals Carribean Resort 2 Mar 8:11 AM (last month)
Yes you can! I got emailed about this and thought I would share it with all of you. It’s for 3 nights and the giveaway ends May 20th and the drawing is May 22nd.
When I was searching for a honeymoon destination it never occurred to me to try to win one. Now that I’m on the other side I see there is a lot of opportunities for brides to win things for their wedding. So why not, sign up for everything, what have you got to loose?! I see now that I could have had so much more for practically nothing!
You can sign up for the Sandal’s Giveaway <<here>> .
More info about the resort: You can win a three-night Dream Honeymoon for two at one of Sandals tropical resorts. Sandals has been voted World’s Best Honeymoon Resort for the past eight years in a row. Imagine scenic settings where the ultimate of everything is within your reach. Including the most luxurious rooms and suites with exquisite views, along with thoughtful amenities. Each Sandals resort features a wide choice of international gourmet dining experiences, complimented by free-flowing premium spirits, served by a staff whose greatest pleasure is making you smile.
One other thing to note, I was informed the winner will have to pay a $25 per night room fee, but who cares $75 for 3 nights at a top resort, it’s a steal!
Good luck and happy winning!
xoxo Siena
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Let the Bridesmaids Choose Their Own Dresses 25 Feb 8:11 AM (last month)
It’s a crazy idea, right? No! If you want to make sure your bridesmaids are comfortable in the dresses they’ll wear for the ceremony and reception, let them choose the styles. This is a very effective system, because your bridesmaids’ bodies aren’t all the same – something that will look fantastic on one may not be the most flattering on another. Use these ideas to come up with the best solution.
Same Shade, Different Styles
One great way to pull this off is to have your bridesmaids choose dresses that are in the exact same shade, but in the style they want. This ensures that each bridesmaid has a dress that they’re comfortable with, and that you’re happy because they fit your color scheme.
Or, Go With Different Colors
If it’s not important to you that the shade of the dresses is exactly the same, let your bridesmaids choose their colors. Come up with a number of colors that will all complement your wedding scheme, and let the bridesmaids choose from that. The result can be especially beautiful and your wedding party will still look unified. They can also go with different shades of the same color.
All Different Styles and Colors
Your bridesmaids can still look gorgeous with all different styles and shades, too. Each groomsmen can wear a tie in the exact shade of his partner bridesmaid to create a tied-together look that is pleasing to the eye, especially in wedding pictures.
Your wedding can still be gorgeous, even if you don’t want the same styles and colors for your bridesmaids dresses. Use these ideas for inspiration and don’t be afraid to think outside the box.
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How Do I Write My Own Wedding Vows? 20 Feb 8:11 AM (last month)
If a bride to be wants her wedding to be more personal she’ll in all likelihood research and look for examples of wedding vows. The best way to have a special and creative message is to compose the vows yourself. Even when writing yourself some couples want romantic wedding vows but others not so romantic.
Years ago couples preparing for their wedding customarily didn’t say much at all . All the phrases spoken during the ceremony were basic but those times and trends have changed. Now the bride and groom are virtually expected to deliver a special message. They can decide what to say at numerous stages during the ceremony if they want to.
An emotional or intimate message can be integrated by couples if they write their own vows as opposed to traditional vows. As a result the entire experience is enhanced and allows the wedding to be more heart warming, dramatic and meaningful. Need to know how to write wedding vows yourself? Consider the following:
Be Ready!
When preparing you should talk with the wedding officer prior to the ceremony. If you plan to write your vows inform the official performing the ceremony and ask if there are any legal issues or guidelines you should know. They can typically give you ideas to help before you begin to write. This will help you remain focused and save time. They can help you know in what areas of the ceremony you are expected to say something.
What Topic Should You Write About?
You can insert promises like: “I pledge my life to do ( mention what)” or you can design a genuine message to each other. You could create a combination of each to perk things up. Even though the duration may vary it shouldn’t require a lot of time to deliver. Be aware that you’ll have plenty to do that day and long speech may be stressful. It’s best to keep it short yet filled with meaning.
Speak with the Official Before the Ceremony
After you write your vows meet with the official and let them read it. Although the final message should be yours don’t dismiss the officials’ advice. They normally have plenty experience and could give sensible advice.
Practice to be Perfect
Repeatedly practice your wedding vows prior to the ceremony. Although there isn’t a rigid guideline against reading your vows, a earnest presentation would have a lasting effect on your mate and people witnessing it. Decrease or eliminate lines too long. If you don’t you may not remember when it is time to say it . You may feel more confident having a written edition as a fall back in case you forget.
Be Prepared to Perform Wedding Vows
Do the best you can to stay relaxed when reciting your vows. If you don’t you’ll probably speak too quickly. If you do forget some lines recover by saying something from your heart instead. Don’t forget that your wedding vows is a focal point of the wedding. When it’s time for your moment in the spotlight, don’t rush. Relax and enjoy the experience!
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Most Unusual Ways to Say I Do 10 Feb 8:11 AM (last month)
The web has been buzzing lately with news of the world’s first Twitter wedding, which brings to mind other unusual ways to say I do. If you’re a bride or groom who shuns tradition, perhaps these ideas are for you!
Skydiving – How would you like to say your “I do’s” at 30,000 feet? Many couples have gone this route and loved it. One thing’s for sure – you’re not likely to forget those vows any time soon!
Eloping in Vegas – For some people, this is a way to avoid all the excessive wedding planning and stress, but for others, it’s just a fun idea. Why not go to a tacky chapel and get married by a man in an Elvis suit? It’s your wedding, so it should be something you absolutely love!
Inside a Shark Tank – Yes, a couple has actually done this before! In June of 2010, April Pignataro and Michael Curry of New York stepped inside the shark tank in black and white wetsuits and said their vows over a radio transmitter. Talk about exciting!
On a Bicycle – How about marrying your husband while driving down the street on a bicycle? A Russian couple was married this way, in full wedding day ensembles.
While these are just a few of the most unusual ways to say I do, they are no doubt a little more colorful than what you were planning. In any case, maybe these ideas have inspired you to do something a little different than tradition demands.
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