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Have Sex When Everything Else Makes Sense 17 Mar 2013 | 04:29 pm
Easier said than done right? OK, have sex when everything else makes sense… But when does everything else “makes sense?” Certainly, it’s subjective, but there are a few criteria one can use. It’s quit...
Getting Someone Out of Your Head 3 Mar 2013 | 07:48 pm
It’s great to be crushed out on someone or daydreaming about someone 24/7. But what if it’s someone you don’t want trapped in your head? Maybe it’s the wrong situation, wrong timing; maybe they’re jus...
Empowering Women Circles 16 Feb 2013 | 06:13 pm
My upcoming workshop on February 19, Tuesday is now changed to a 2 hour workshop at just $25. (For folks who are not in New York City, you can be in touch with me directly about one-on-one coaching.) ...
You Finally Have a Say in Your Life 12 Feb 2013 | 08:37 pm
When we were little we often did not get to choose much of anything. Maybe what to wear to school that day. Or to bed. But you had to go to school. You had to go to soccer practice. You had to brush y...
Do You Depend on Alcohol or Caffeine? 9 Feb 2013 | 06:11 am
I decided for this month of February that I would abstain from alcohol or caffeine. Somehow imposing the (however brief) time limit on it really helped. It’s not endless. Thirty—or 28—days is a totall...
Grow Your Orgasm, Grow Your Power 11 Dec 2012 | 12:33 am
Do you feel like most days you are dragging, tired, overworked? You’re taking care of everyone else but yourself? You’re not interested in sex with your boyfriend/partner. Or maybe you’re single and y...
How to Find Women Who Want Sex and Two Poems 9 Dec 2012 | 08:02 pm
Question: How can I find women who want sex and not a boyfriend? Answer: You need to be open and direct about what you want from the beginning. Don’t be misleading and say something sweet like you’re ...
What Do You Want? 7 Dec 2012 | 03:33 am
Do you really know what you want? Many people think they want A when actually they really want to get to C and somehow think A will get them there when it totally won’t. Or they think B will make them...
Pussy Eating Is My Deal Breaker 4 Dec 2012 | 09:45 pm
I took a big leap of faith—or rather did something that I was absolutely terrified of the other day. These are the times when you don’t know if you should listen to your gut or not because your gut is...
Orgasm is My Rocket Fuel 2 Dec 2012 | 05:38 pm
I went to an amazing live talk by Nicole Daedone last night—female orgasm expert/guru. But first a couple question-answers: Question: Thanks for ur posts. U r very inspirational n timely with an iss...